Recently Kim and I were talking about another couple’s marriage. We’re quite good at that . . . talking about other people and how they should be better! At some point one of us said something like this. “Well, she just needs to be more submissive.” That was probably me. And of course Kim responded by saying, “Well, he just needs to love her sacrificially.” And I think we were right. In reality they just needed to obey the Scriptures.
But is it that easy? Well, the answer is yes, and no. Certainly the solution to most, if not all, of our issues in life is to better obey the Scriptures. The more we obey the Scriptures, the more we honor God, the more we live out the purpose for which God made us, the more we enjoy God’s blessings. But the moment we think that obedience is easy is the moment we start to fall.
Let me make a statement that speaks to this, and then try to defend it. Obedience is not godly unless it requires Jesus. Continue reading →